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OMG. ME TOO. 4 appointments in a week every two weeks. 2 in the other weeks. Chronic fatigue. Bed bound. Appointments where youโ€™re essentially just gaslit. Bittersweet ive been dealing with chronic illness for 7 years and know these doctors are WRONG. had a naturopath who knew their stuff move the needle for me. Iโ€™ve canceled and moved my appointments out by 4 weeks. First if I had a Dr. who said they wouldnโ€™t treat me without a psychiatrist first (in related to chronic illness), Iโ€™d get a new doctor. But please, if you get a therapist get one that understands chronic illness. I have an amazing therapist who isโ€ฆ amazing. Still, I think she doesnโ€™t understand me when I say Iโ€™m too weak to do xyz and itโ€™s not a motivational thing. Find myself feeling like I have to prove my illness to her, too, because Iโ€™m sitting in front of her each week appearing somewhat okay (because I get rides to her appt and donโ€™t have to take transit). Anyways. Youโ€™re not alone. Itโ€™s unfortunate for us to be in this position. Naturopaths are way better in these areas if you can find one thatโ€™s cost effective.

๐Ÿ‰ Percy Sullivan ๐Ÿ‰'s avatar

Thanks! I do have a psychologist who disagrees with my GP thatโ€™s the wild thing! But yes I am definitely getting a new GP ๐Ÿ˜‚ Urgh I hate feeling like you have to prove illness, I tend towards saying yes Iโ€™m here now but Iโ€™m going to have to go home and lay down for the rest of the day and maybe tomorrow to recover from this so is that normal??? ๐Ÿ˜‚

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Thatโ€™s good that you have a clear minded psychologist on your side! I think when some doctors meet symptoms they donโ€™t know how to approach, they put blame on the patient. It affects their ego. Very unprofessional. Right! Iโ€™ll have to try that one out. I hope for more consistently strong and healthy days filled with vitality for us!